As a girl, whenever I was impatiently looking forward to a special day, like the end of school, or going on vacation, or my birthday (been a long time since I looked forward to one of those), my mom would always say, âDonât wish your life away.âÂ
Decades later, Iâve finally figured out what she meant. She wasnât trying to dampen my excitement, rather she was reminding me to not rush through life, to stay in the now, to savor the season because the next one would come soon enough.Â
So, when I hear my friends pine for fall weather â and we live in Florida, so who can blame them, but then most of us have had a record-hot summer â I think of Momâs wise words and remind myself that the next season will be here soon enough.Â
Take a beat.Â
The older I get, the more wistful I feel when a season ends. This year, I am clinging a little longer to summer, to the linen dresses and sunhats, the tall ice teas and ripe stone fruits, the long sun-filled days and the breeze through the screen of an open door.
Soon enough, weâll have a fire in the firepit, a football game playing in the background, warm jackets hanging on hooks by the door, leaves crunching underfoot, mounds of pumpkins and gourds, baskets of apples, an extra blanket on the bed and trees showing off their colors.Â
And while Iâm not in a rush, I also know changes are signaling that itâs time to get ready for fall, to prepare the house for a colder season in ways both practical and pretty.
I liken these two categories of changes to vegetables and dessert. In the vegetable section are un-fun chores that home experts recommend we do this time of year for the soundness of our homes. These should-do chores go along with adulting and make you feel virtuous. In the dessert category are the seasonal decor moves that make your home look, feel and smell like fall.Â
Vegetables first
To head off weather-related problems, experts from Neighborly, a large home services company, and risk control professionals from Travelers suggest making the following home maintenance projects part of your fall routine.
Clean rain gutters: Keeping gutters and downspouts free of leaves and debris is important for your homeâs health. Left untended, leaves can prevent rain from draining and can cause water to seep under shingles, compromising your roof and walls.
Rake the leaves: Similarly, a buildup of leaves on the lawn can smother it. Keep leaves raked.
Check your heating system: Before you switch the thermostat from cool to warm, test the heating system to be sure it works. If the system is due for maintenance, have it serviced before you need it. Once weather turns cool, program the thermostat to keep the house to a consistent energy-efficient temperature.
Kill the chill: To head off drafts at the source, seal leaks. Replace worn weatherstripping around doors and caulk cracks or gaps by windows. A well-insulated home will be more comfortable and will keep utility bills down.
Change air filters: Although easy to ignore, air filters in our homes have the important job of purifying the air we breathe by catching dust, mold, dander and other circulating particles. They canât do that if theyâre filthy and clogged. The beginning of a new season is a good time to replace them.
Clear water bibs: If you live in a climate that may experience a freeze, prevent water in outside faucets from freezing and bursting pipes by draining and disconnecting garden hoses, draining the water in the faucet, and removing the water from the interior valve to the spigot. If you donât know how to do this, call a plumber. In areas that donât have prolonged deep freezes, consider installing an insulated cover (available at most home goods stores) over the exterior spigot.
Then, dessert
Once youâve done the responsible adult-type tasks, treat yourself to a hearty serving of seasonal fall decor. Here are some changes Iâll be making at my house when the time is right:Â
- Toss fall-colored throw blankets over chairs and sofas indoors and out.
- Add seasonal scents with gingerbread, cinnamon or pumpkin-spice candles.
- Fill a basket or wood tray with gourds and place them on the hearth or coffee table.
- Place pots of mums on the porch alongside some pumpkins.
- Hang a fall wreath on the front door.
- Cut boughs and branches, with or without leaves, from outdoor trees and place them in vases instead of flowers.
- Heat cider on the stove just for the smell.
- Light a fire, make sâmores, cuddle up and savor the season.
Marni Jameson is the author of seven books on home and lifestyle. She can be reached at www.marnijameson.com.